Music video by Janet Jackson performing Together Again. (C) 1997 Virgin Records
I have heard this "lively" song many times before and danced to it with so much feeling. But I have never connected the idea of applying it to "grief". Now I know the essence of the words and the sound of heart beats on the background (or am I the only one hearing it, no matter, because I know it's there). I no longer miss my mother. There is really that truth of "happy grieving".