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 I am sick of getting emails from men in my inbox asking me what I think about them.  You know who you are. and I have gone so far as blocking some of you from sending further emails.  

I am a sovereign person who does not need anyone else to bounce of or to determine who or what I am.  I do not define myself by others and have so moved beyond such negative insecurities.  I pay no attention to what anyone else does as we are all free to be ourselves and  I also don't need to explain myself to anyone. 

Perhaps how you feel is about you and has nothing to do with me - so stop projecting.   I have no idea why you men on this site always target me to validate yourselves as that will never happen.   I do not support negative behaviors and cut that shit off real quick.  That type of thing is  hardly productive and helps no one. 

Whatever validation you are looking for from women or me in particular  find within yourself.

A man will treat a woman almost exactly the way he treats his own interior feminine. In fact, he hasn't the ability to see a woman, objectively speaking, until he has made some kind of peace with his interior woman.
Robert Johnson

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Comment by cymaglobe on October 23, 2011 at 1:48pm

ah. good luck with them. cant you block them?


Comment by Sunmover on October 23, 2011 at 10:47am

@Abe, such a valid point. Who knows whats on the others side of any internet interaction.

@Rem, unfortunately it has been more than one man, and that is what finally forced me to declare out loud how unimpressed I am and how irritating and unattractive ego intrusion is. If it were simply a matter of getting into my knickers it may not be so bad, but they are wanting a piece of me that I am not willing to give to satisfy a negative ego. 

@Mac, in theory that may sound like a possibility but in actuality we are right back to the external ego needs.  They are looking for me to admire their mental prowess.  I am not a spiritual authority for anyone but myself.  My teachings, or life understanding is mine for me and for what I have learned on my path.  Everyone has their own path with their own teachings and pattern recognition.  If people stop looking outside of themselves for validation they may find they know more and will feel less likely to talk about, or convince others of how cleverly they are.  As it is many of these characters are recycling the information of others on the internet and often don't discern if there is any truth in it, and lack direct experience,
  Sky posted a brilliant Video in this blog that I would highly recommend for everyone to listen to.
Comment by cymaglobe on October 23, 2011 at 3:44am
Everyone has a special part to play in our worlds.
Bow in worship. ;-)

It is simple. Many people have a one track mind. Sometimes my mind is one track also but i a shapeshifter. (picses) I'm glad to have many friends IRL. It would be easy for me to fall victem to the demon of insecurity.
The man you speak about simply should go outside a bit more.
Comment by Sunmover on October 22, 2011 at 6:39pm

@Rem, I don't divide the world either but it is interesting that it's the males who want to know what I think of them and not the females so that is what brought that aspect into being. What I didn't add is that most of these in boxing men tell me that they have a special part to play in the I suppose those comments is to make me bow in worship... Clearly they do not know me if they think such crap will impress me.   I even had one asking me to comment on his blog to save him face....

@Mac, now I'm shocked that others would even write you or anyone to call them derogatory names.  Perhaps it's me, but I would have imagined an esoteric site would be for those who are seeking to elevate spiritually and not lower the vibrations of themselves or others  through disrespectful low level interactions.

Comment by cymaglobe on October 22, 2011 at 4:08pm

Funny. The world was never really divided into 2 camps to me. Perhaps a bit as a teenager when i looked at all woman as angels.  :-) Later in life i found both angels and demons in woman and man.
I would date some man if i wouldn't be married and if i would be sexually attracted to them which i`m never. But really many many many girls talk for hours about there insecurities and i used to hate them for that but now i have come to love them for that.

In my life i came across my share of attention seeking individuals. Sometimes i was the one seeking attention. It is a shame that we people have to ask for attention or even go online and seek it from people we hardly know.  

Everyone has insecurities. In our desensitized shallow world we became immune for each others spiritual and physical needs emotionally, sexually, intellectually  ..etcetera. Insecurities have become most unattractive to anyone really. We over-scream our insecurities with ego boosting and muscle pumping and breast implants and diplomas and being everyones saviour or guru and by adopting material substitutes for love and affection rather then facing our own insecurities and fear of being losers.  And the rich overconfident very secure arrogant guy gets the cute girl.  ;-) 





Comment by Jolan ☯ on October 22, 2011 at 2:22pm
Need for validation, or lacking ability to look one self in the eye ...
Comment by Sunmover on October 22, 2011 at 2:01pm

Jesse, you got it right 'boys'  are what I am refering to and when they become men they put away childish things.  One of the most attractive qualities in a person is that they are comfortable in their own skin. Male or female.

When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways.

1 Corinthians 13:11

Comment by jesse on October 22, 2011 at 1:38pm
boys need to make a lot of mistakes and Learn from them to become a real MAN. same with women.
Comment by jesse on October 22, 2011 at 1:33pm
your picture is ironic.
Comment by Sunmover on October 22, 2011 at 1:11pm

I  think that they insult me by not seeing me for myself but what they want me to be to them or their reflection through me.  It's about them and their egos and it speaks volumes of their own insecurities. 

Insecurities in a man is most unattractive to any female.  Women want men to be strong and resourceful not dependent and weak. 

If there where a flood women would want a man to say 'jump on my back and I'll  take you to safety' not 'quick tell me what to do or help me figure out if I'm right and while your at it tell me how wonderful I am'.  It's damn boring and women don't want to have to out  piss a man in a pissing contest, and neither do they find little boys attractive unless they are their sons.  

And to answer your question Remmie, I don't think of them until they get in my space.  If a man wants flattery from a women then they need to earn it and not ask for it.


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